Embrace Your Pain

Embrace Your Pain

“I am overwhelmed with troubles and my life draws near to death” (Psalm 88:3 NIV).

We have all experienced pain and loss. Yours may be different from mine but all pain is real and raw. I think it is hard for most of us to consider pain as pure joy. Scripture sets a high standard for us in this regard. “Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything” (James 1:2-4).

We are who we are today based on (1) what we have experienced, which certainly includes our pain and (2) how have we resolved our pain. The second item is particularly important because that is where we begin to see differences between people. For some, the pain remains unresolved and perhaps is numbed by drugs and alcohol. Maybe its just tucked away and not talked about but lingers. Pain often becomes a defining moment in the life of a Christian. It will either bring you closer to God or pull you away.

We begin to gain a better understanding of our pain when we realize that our time on earth is so very brief but so essential to prepare and equip us for eternal life. Our understanding deepens when we consider the nature of eternal life. This is the life that God intended for us to have before sin entered the world. When we are finally healed and see the Face of our Lord, there is no pain, sorrow, or death. Romans 8:18 tells us of the glory that awaits us in eternal life. “I consider that our present sufferings are not worth comparing with the glory that will be revealed in us” (Romans 8:18).

A person’s perspective in times of trial is paramount in enduring hardships. For me, I reflect upon the words of 2 Corinthians 4:18. “So we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but on what is unseen, since what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal.” We see problems. We live in a fallen world. Healing begins when we turn away from the pain, which is temporary, and toward our Father, who is eternal.

Our response to pain will ultimately increase or decrease our faith in God. Scripture speaks to the relationship between trials and faith. “In all this you greatly rejoice, though now for a little while you may have had to suffer grief in all kinds of trials. These have come so that the proven genuineness of your faith—of greater worth than gold, which perishes even though refined by fire—may result in praise, glory and honor when Jesus Christ is revealed. Though you have not seen him, you love him; and even though you do not see him now, you believe in him and are filled with an inexpressible and glorious joy” (I Peter 1:6-8). Use your pain to draw closer to God with prayer, service, and worship and realize that your pain can become your ministry.

We can choose to respond joyfully because we know we have final victory over pain because of His victory. We can choose to partner with God in times of trials to make us into the kinds of people He wants us to be (Romans 8:28–29). I believe that our good, compassionate God longs for all of us to be on a formational journey in Christian perfection to be more Christ-like and pain provides a unique “on-ramp” to expedite the journey.

Jesus was often called Teacher and all teachers know that our circumstances influence our ability to learn. A “teachable moment” is an event or experience which presents a good opportunity for learning something about a particular aspect of life. Pain can create a teachable moment. We can not control the pain, but we can control our response to the teachable moment it creates.

On my better days, I’m learning that pain is almost always an invitation. The right next step for all of us is to accept the invitation and embrace the pain because it is nothing compared to the glory that awaits us in heaven.

Prayer: Dear God: We thank you for breathing life into us. You told us that in this life we will have hardships but to take heart because You have overcome the world. Help us to live as Easter people that are in preparation for eternal life. Help us to consider it all pure joy. Help us to store up our treasure in heaven. Amen.

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Todd Shupe is a Men’s Ministry Specialist through the General Commission of United Methodist Men and is in training to be a Certified Lay Minister through the Louisiana Conference of the United Methodist Church. He currently serves as the President of the Baton Rouge District of United Methodist Men and is a Board Member for Gulf South Men and serves on the Action Team for The Kingdom Group. He is a volunteer for the Walk to Emmaus, Grace Camp, and Iron Sharpens Iron. Todd resides in Baton Rouge, Louisiana.

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Can We Really Be Thankful in All Circumstances?

“Give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.” (1 Thessalonians 5:18 (NIV).

One of the most difficult concepts for all Christians is to be thankful in all circumstances. I think all of us have lifted prayers of supplication during times of great adversity. As we prayed, we were probably nervous, angry, or perhaps scared. We certainly were not thankful.

Prayer must be grounded with gratitude, confidence, and humility. We express gratitude when we thank God for what He has already done. This concept is well stated in Philippians 4:6. “Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God.”

The Bible teaches, “Give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus” (1 Thessalonians 5:18). I think many people are waiting on God to take action on their prayers but God is perhaps waiting on them to show some sincere gratitude. Everything we have is from God. “Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows (James 1:17).

Our confidence in prayer is not based on self-confidence but rather our confidence in the Father and His promises to us. “Because of Christ and our faith in Him, we can now come boldly and confidently into God’s presence” (Ephesians 3:12).

Last but not least is humility. I know God is not pleased with the prevalent attitude of entitlement. Humility is essential to prayer. One of my favorite promises of Scripture is in 2 Chronicles 7:14 and speaks to the importance of humility. “If my people, which are called by my name, shall humble themselves, and pray, and seek my face, and turn from their wicked ways; then will I hear from heaven, and will forgive their sin, and will heal their land.”

The Bible says to give thanks in all circumstances. Notice it does not say to give thanks for all circumstances. There is a big difference. There are a lot of things in life you should not be thankful for. You should never be thankful for evil. In fact, we are called to hate evil.

The Bible says to give thanks in every circumstance, not for, because God can bring good even out of bad things. This is the promise of Romans 8:28 which gives us hope during bad times. “And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love Him, who^] have been called according to His purpose.”

There is no doubt that there is evil in this world. We should never be grateful for evil or tragic circumstances. We can be grateful that evil will not win. God can and will turn bad into good in His own way and in His own time. Our God has already established final victory over sin. We will eventually be healed, and His victory shall be ours as well. “And God shall wipe away all tears from their eyes, and there shall be no more death, neither sorrow, nor crying, neither shall there be any more pain; for the former things are passed away” (Revelation 21:4).

When bad things happen, don’t ask, “Why is this happening to me?” Instead, ask, “God, what do you want me to learn from this?” When we learn from God, then you grow more like Christ. Then we will be able to better see how He is working in our lives and truly give Him thanks in all circumstances.

Prayer: Dear God, Thank you for the blood of your Son that gives us victory over sin and death. Forgive us for our lack of gratitude, confidence, and humility. Restore in us a clean heart and a right spirit. Amen.

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Don’t Let Regret From The Past Rob You Of Joy In The Present

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“Freedom is what we have—Christ has set us free! Stand, then, as free people, and do not allow yourselves to become slaves again” (Galatians 5:1 GNT).

We all have regrets. A little is natural but when regret paralyzes your ability to enjoy the present, it is a problem. As Christians we are not called to be timid and regretful. Our calling, as detailed in Joshua 1, is to be “strong and courageous.”

As Joshua 1 begins, the Israelites are camped along the east bank of the Jordan River. Forty years earlier the Israelites had an opportunity to enter the promised land, but they failed to trust God to give them victory. As a result, God did not allow them to enter the land, but made them wander in the desert until the disobedient generation had all died. I wonder if the new generation had a touch of regret that their parents were not with them to enjoy this moment. Maybe God sensed this regret when on three occasions He gave them their calling, which certainly applies to us today, to be “strong and courageous.”

This calling is appealing to us, but we often struggle with implementation. How do we do this? Life is not a Hollywood movie in which we wake up one day with strength and courage. The past can teach us valuable lessons for the future, but there is nothing to be learned from regret.

Jesus had some advice for His disciples when they were rejected in a city: “shake off the dust that clings to your feet (Matthew 10:14).” We cannot control if others chose to reject us or reject God. We can control our response by moving on without regret. Paul was bit by a deadly snake. Instead of crying and mourning, he simply “shook it off in the fire” (Acts 28:5) and was unharmed.

Both of these stories teach us the right next step after encountering adversity – “shake it off.” Don’t allow your thoughts to linger on negativity. Instead, follow the advice of Philippians 4:8. “Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things.” If you are struggling with regret, then speak out loud and claim the promise of Romans 8:28. “And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love Him, who^] have been called according to His purpose.”

Samuel regretted that he had anointed Saul as king. Finally, God spoke to him in 1 Samuel 16: 1. “How long will you grieve over Saul? Fill your horn with oil and go” (to anoint a new king). God knows our regrets and poor choices. His question to us now is the same as it was to Samuel. How long will you regret your choices? The next chapter to the story of your life is waiting. Sometimes in life we must turn away from our poor choices, Saul, to find the next chapter, David. What or who do you need to turn from now?

As you turn from the past be prepared for it to reach toward you to deny your entry into the future. You will surely have thoughts of failure and second guessing yourself. Maybe it’s safer to stay in the past. Maybe the devil we know is better than the one we don’t know. For example, Stockholm syndrome is a condition in which hostages develop a psychological bond with their captors during captivity. Carefully examine your thoughts and ask yourself, who is the originator of these thoughts?

Ask your pastor to help you with discernment so that the Spirit can guide you and reveal if you have any unknown strongholds of regret. As we confess a stronghold, we also break the enemy off from that area. Remember, we are to bring every thought captive to God. “We demolish arguments and every pretension that sets itself up against the knowledge of God, and we take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ” (2 Corinthians 10:5). The Word is stronger than any two-edged sword (Hebrews 4:12) and is essential to spiritual warfare. As we speak Scripture aloud, we unleash truth to a lie (Ephesians 4:15), renew our minds (Romans 12:2), and gain freedom (Galatians 5:1).

We all have “good” excuses for not going in a new direction when the old direction is clearly bad. Today truly is a new day for new beginnings. The right next step for today is to leave the regret from the past in the past. Others may want to live in the past and may even want to remind you of your past failures by using their tongue to speak words of death (Proverbs 18:21). These people may be physically alive, but more importantly they are spiritually dead. Jesus said, “Follow me, and let the dead bury their own dead” (Matthew 8:22). Nothing should come between us and following Jesus, certainly not regret from the past nor the harsh words of those that seek to divide, deceive, and destroy.

Prayer: Dear God, We have made poor choices in the past and will surely make more poor choices in the future. Help us to live free of regret. Forgive us for the times that we have used our tongues to speak words of death to a brother or sister in Christ. Dear God, we ask a special measure of blessing and protection to be placed on those that are using their words to attack us. May they feel your love and presence in such a way that their hearts will be softened, and their lives will be living testimonies to your grace. Amen.

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Healing A Broken Spirit

“A broken spirit who can bear it?” (Proverbs 18:14 NASB).

One of the many names for Jesus was The Great Physician. His fingerprints are evident every day when people are healed of terrible diseases. The healing may come in the form of restoration of our current life or renewal to an enteral life in His presence.

One area that medicine cannot heal is a broken spirit. We have wonderful counselors and medications for mental health that can be helpful, and I would never diminish the benefit of mental health professionals and medication. It may appear that these medications and counselors are from the secular world. However, James 1:17 teaches us, “Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows.”

Proverbs 18:14 is essentially telling us that we cannot bear a broken spirit. Furthermore, we cannot heal a broken spirit. God alone can mend a broken spirit.

“A broken spirit comes from a broken heart,” said the late Dr. Myles Munroe, a evangelist, author, speaker and leadership consultant. “When you have had your soul torn, it affects your entire life. It causes you to have a depressed spirit. The trauma of a broken spirit is very real, and it is almost hellish in the sense that no one can save you from it. God is the only one who can repair a spirit.”

Dr. Linda Mintle, a nationally recognized author and speaker with an impressive list of television and radio credits, says, “Nothing in God’s economy is beyond repair. God does His best work with broken pieces. If you look in the Bible, He takes people who are broken and wounded, and He restores them and uses them mightily. With faith and a belief in Jesus Christ, you can be totally transformed and free. That is a promise.”

In the Sermon on the Mount, Jesus began with two blessings. “Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted.” As we feel broken hearted, we are more likely to also feel humble. The Bible says, “God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble” (James 4:6).” Our God will pour out His blessing and race on the broken hearted that seek Him in humility. The blessing of our heavenly Father is even more powerful than the blessing that Isaac bestowed upon Jacob in Genesis 27:27-29.

The Bible contains countless Scripture in which God promises to save anyone whose spirit is broken and bruised. One of my favorites is, “The LORD is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit” (Psalm 34:18). God is revealing Himself as the true source of healing and renewal.

Prayer: Dear God, You know what it feels like to be rejected, alone, and outcast. Help us to feel your presence and stand firm on your promises as we pass through dark times. Amen.

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Judge Others Or Listen?

“According to our Law we cannot condemn people before hearing them and finding out what they have done” (John 7:51 GNT).

Those close to me will often tell me that I am naïve. I tend to be optimistic and take people at their word. I am not cynical. However, each day I am shocked by the level of hatred that I see among people. Hatred can be manifested in many ways such as physical violence, racism, oppression, etc.

Hatred is born as a thought and grows into an action. During the thought process a judgment is made to justify or rationalize the pending action.

One of my favorite characters from the Bible was Nicodemus. He was a Pharisee, but he came to Jesus one night to listen and learn from Him (John 3:1-21). One time the Pharisees were trying to judge Jesus without letting Him have a say or explain himself (without listening). Nicodemus spoke up and said, “According to our Law we cannot condemn people before hearing them and finding out what they have done” (John 7:51).

Scripture warns us against the perils of judging others. Jesus said, “Do not judge, or you too will be judged. For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you” (Matthew 7:1-2).

Scripture also encourages us to listen to others. James 1:19 teaches, “Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry.”

So, how do we stop from being judgmental. Listen. Be quick to listen. Listen with compassion, honesty, sincerity, and fairness.

I wonder how many times I have judged someone without listening to their story first? I wonder if I would have joined Nicodemus or sided with the other Pharisees when it came time to judge Jesus? How would you have responded?

Imagine a world in which we all offer grace to sinners (each other) and encouragement rather than judgment. Isn’t this what we are asking in the Lord’s Prayer when we say, “Your kingdom come” (Matthew 6:10).

Leave the judging to God. He wants us to listen and not judge. After listening, then pray. Don’t judge. Just pray. Finally, be blessed as you bless others.

Prayer: Dear God: We confess that we have judged others without listening. We have pointed out the plank in our neighbor’s eye while ignoring the log in our own eye. Help us, dear God, to listen as you listen and to love as you love. Help us to listen and listen some more and love and love some more. Amen.

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Doubting Your Doubts

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Doubting Your Doubts

“The world’s sin is unbelief in me” (John 16:9 TLB).

I have always been more interested in the root cause of a problem rather than dealing with the results of the problem. As Christians we talk a lot about sin, particularly the separation of the sinner from God and the forgiveness of sin due to the blood of Jesus for those that repent and earnestly seek His face.

However, I wonder if we truly understand the basis behind our sin. Some would argue that the root cause is a desire to live in the flesh, pursue our own desires rather than discern His will, the natural consequence of original sin, or perhaps another reason. I think all of these are valid answers but there may be something a little deeper that we can explore.

I believe that at the root of every sin rests at least a momentary doubt about God. In John 16:9 Jesus says, “The sin is unbelief in me.” When we don’t believe the divine or sovereign nature of our Lord, that is the root of all sin.

At each visit to my doctor, my body temperature and blood pressure are checked to indicate my physical health. Our emotions are an indicator of our spiritual health. Some emotions reveal an inner doubt in God and will surely lead to sin and a separation from the Father.

As we grow impatient, it reveals doubt in God’s perfect timing. God has a plan for our lives, but His time is often different from our time but it is always better and perfect. Scripture teaches in 2 Peter 3:8-9, “But do not forget this one thing, dear friends: With the Lord a day is like a thousand years, and a thousand years are like a day. The Lord is not slow in keeping his promise, as some understand slowness. He is patient with you, not wanting anyone to perish, but everyone to come to repentance.”

God is never going to be in a hurry. In John 11 we read that Jesus delayed His departure for two days after receiving word that Lazarus was dying. How often do we want things to happen our own timetable? How often do we take action to accomplish our desires without waiting to allow God to act at the perfect time and perfect manner?

Another indicator emotion is resentment or bitterness. These emotions reveal doubt in God’s wisdom. We easily trust God during good times, but we truly trust in Him when we follow Him in bad times. During the bad times do you become disappointed in God? Also, during bad times do you doubt that He can bring good out of bad as promised in Romans 8:28.

Guilt is a negative emotion that reveals an unbelief in God’s forgiveness. I think short term guilt is healthy because it can serve to prevent us from making similar poor choices in the future. However, the duration of your guilt should be commensurate with the time needed to confess your sin. Long-term guilt result from an inability to forgive yourself because you don’t believe God has forgiven you.

At times we feel inadequate, which reveals we doubt in God’s power. Scripture tells us repeatedly that God does not call the empowered, but He empowers those that He calls. As Christians, we have all been called into ministry through our baptism and profession of faith. True power never comes from the flesh but rather from the Spirit. There is no power on this earth that is remotely close to His power.

If you have these negative emotions and want to gain victory, then you need to start doubting your doubts. If you believe in God’s Word, you can trust what it says about the nature of God and His love for you. He keeps His promises, has perfect timing, is wise, forgives you, and works powerfully through you. The right next step to victory is to read Scripture AND believe His promises and reject any doubt that is from the enemy. .

Prayer: I believe in God, the Father Almighty, maker of heaven and earth; And in Jesus Christ his only Son, our Lord; who was conceived by the Holy Spirit, born of the Virgin Mary, suffered under Pontius Pilate, was crucified, dead, and buried;* the third day He rose from the dead; He ascended into heaven, and sitteth at the right hand of God the Father Almighty; from thence He shall come to judge the quick and the dead. I believe in the Holy Spirit, the holy catholic** church, the communion of saints, the forgiveness of sins, the resurrection of the body, and the life everlasting. Amen.

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Finding Joy While Suffering

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Finding Joy While Suffering

“God lifted me out of the slimy pit, out of the mud and mire; He set my feet on a rock
and gave me a firm place to stand” (Psalm 40:2 NIV).

One of the more common questions from Christians is about suffering. Why does a God that loves us as His own children allow suffering? Perhaps the greatest challenge to our faith is to understand pain and suffering.

Many people point to the Book of Job to understand suffering. God did not cause Job’s suffering but allowed the devil to cause suffering. Job was tempted and tested. Job struggled in his understanding and cried out to the Lord. God spoke truth and declared His sovereignty. Job, in the end, chose God and was rewarded.

Job is useful today for us to understand suffering, and to then step out in faith to claim the promise of Romans 5:3-5. “Not only that, but we rejoice in our sufferings, knowing that suffering produces endurance, and endurance produces character, and character produces hope, and hope does not put us to shame, because God’s love has been poured into our hearts through the Holy Spirit who has been given to us.”

There is nothing joyful about suffering. We do not rejoice for the suffering but rejoice while we persevere through the suffering. God never causes suffering but will allow it to bring us closer to Him (Christian perfection). Scripture encourages us to consider it all joy, even times of suffering because these times will help make us more like the One that was perfect. “Consider it all joy, my brethren, when you encounter various trials, knowing that the testing of your faith produces endurance. And let endurance have its perfect result, so that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing” (James 1:2-4).

Just like Job, none of us are exempt from suffering, loneliness, discouragement, false accusations, or unjust criticism. In fact, Jesus understands and experienced them all. As we experience them, we can be bitter or we can persevere with joyful anticipation as we wait to see how the Lord will use it for good as stated in Romans 8:28. “And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.” While we do not know the particular manner or time in which God will use the pain, we can rejoice that if we trust in Him, it will be used to develop the character of Christ in us.

So, what is the right next step. First, build your house on the Rock. This means to feed your faith during the good times (and bad times) so when the winds of suffering come, you will be better prepared to persevere.

A personal relationship with Jesus is essential to finding victory before, during, and after suffering. If we approach Him with trust and delight, we are then able to claim His promises of provision and protection. For example, Proverbs 3:5-6 teaches, “Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding;in all your ways submit to Him, and He will make your paths straight” (emphasis added). Moreover, Psalm 37:4 reads, “Delight in the LORD and He will give you the desires of your heart (emphasis added).”

Trust is a sign of faith. Go read Hebrews 11 to learn how God honors the faith (trust) of flawed people. As we delight in the Lord, the desires of our heart become closer in accordance with His desires. In times of suffering, do not be discouraged but instead rely on Him for provision and protection, which are far greater and stronger than anything from this world. Our Lord experienced suffering and knew we would also when He said in John 16:33, “In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.” We can overcome the suffering if we stand steadfast in faith and delight and claim His promises.

Prayer: Dear God, Thank you for never leaving us or forsaking us. Help us to trust and delight in You during good times and bad. Amen.

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Anger Can Be Good

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Anger Can Be Good

“Fools vent their anger, but the wise quietly hold it back” (Proverbs 29:11 NLT).

Many people think that all anger is bad or sinful. We tend to associate anger with a loss of control, shouting, and aggressive behavior. However, anger can be good and only becomes sinful when it is expressed in an inappropriate way. There is nothing wrong with anger if it is properly directed. We are taught, “In your anger do not sin” (Ephesians 4:26). We are less likely to model Godly behavior, and sin, if we are controlled by our anger rather than we control our anger.

Sometimes the most appropriate response to a situation is anger. I am angry when I see injustice occurring in the world. I am angry when I see children, elderly, people with special needs, and animals abused. I am angry when I see churches burned, people killing each other, and babies born that are addicted to drugs due to a drug habit of the mother. I am angry at the lack of anger of others when they see oppression, injustice, and abuse. I am reminded of an often-quoted line of a letter from Edmund Burke to Thomas Mercer – “The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do nothing

Did you ever consider that anger can be an act of love? Of all of the Synoptic Gospels, I like the imagery of John 2 as it describes the anger of our Lord as he encountered the money changers outside the Temple. Scripture tells us that He became angry, fastened a whip out of cords, and overturned their tables. I see this as an act of love for the Temple (God’s house), but also discipline for His children. As parents we discipline our children out of love. I can only imagine the love that Jesus had for His children then which surely extends to us all today. The Psalmist wrote, “Give thanks to the Lord because He is good. His love continues forever (Psalm 136:1).

The Bible says God gets righteously angry, and we are able to experience anger because we are created in His image. However, anger certainly can, and often does, lead to sin, which separates us from God. We often make poor decisions when we are angry so perhaps that is why Scriptures urges us to be “quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry” (James 1:19).

While uncontrolled anger is a sin, controlled anger is beneficial because it gives us a clear-headed view of the situation and allows us, due to His grace, to turn the other cheek and respond with God’s love.

One of the greatest blessings we have from God is free will, and we can use that when we have been wronged. Nobody can make us mad. We choose how to handle our anger. This is often not easy but with the help of the Holy Spirit it is certainly possible.

Proverbs 29:11 says, “Fools vent their anger, but the wise quietly hold it back.” Our relationship with Christ is critical to determine how well we master the anger in our lives. When anger is managed wisely and appropriately, the fruit is great marriages, families, friendships, communities, and churches. Our anger can be used to bring honor and glory to Him and reveal a powerful witness.

Prayer: Dear God, Please help us to be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry.

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Do We Realize Who Is With Us?

“… And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age” (Matthew 28:20 NIV).

Some of the rotten “fruit” of the enemy is fear and doubt. If we truly stopped and contemplated who is always with us, then fear would be defeated. Eventually, Jesus will return, and the enemy will be destroyed along with all of his weapons of spiritual warfare. In the meantime, we can exercise our free will to live in the dark or live in the light. The darkness is scary because our own vision is useless. I have always believed that we can learn something from everyone that we meet. Blind people each day are walking by faith and not by sight (2 Cor. 5:7). If we chose to walk in the light, we are walking with Jesus. John 8:12 teaches us, “…I am the light of the world. Whoever follows me will not walk in darkness, but will have the light of life.”

So, what is the right next step here? How do we actually walk with Jesus? We use our free will and our mouth and heart and declare Him our Lord. Paul teaches us in Romans 10:9-10, “… if you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For with the heart one believes and is justified, and with the mouth one confesses and is saved.”

So, how do we walk with Jesus? We stay in the Word. The Word became flesh when Jesus came (John 1:14). The Word remains with us in the form of the Holy Bible. The Pslamist writes in Psalm 119:105, “Thy word is a lamp unto my feet, and a light unto my path.” The Bible is an instructional manual for daily living. Note, the emphasis on daily living. God wants us to live for today and enjoy the blessings of today. Yes, we are to plan for tomorrow but not worry about tomorrow. Do you recall the words of Jesus when instructing his disciples how to pray? “Give us this day our daily bread” (Matthew 6:11). Please note the focus is on this day and not this week or this year. Now, check out the Scripture at the top of this blog from Matthew 28:20. Jesus is promising His disciples that he will be with them always. That promise and invitation is still valid for you and me – this day and every day.

Prayer: Dear God: When we live in the flesh, we walk using our eyes and do what is right in our own eyes. Help us dear Lord, to always seek first Your Kingdom and Your righteousness. Thank you for loving us, walking with us, and being the Light that we so desperately need. Please continue to shape us as you are the potter and we are the clay. We could not be in any better hands. Amen

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Evil Can Occur During Church

“So I find this law at work: Although I want to do good, evil is right there with me”

(Romans 7:21 NIV).

I am angry about the continued shootings at our churches. Our churches are God’s house on earth. Psalm 46:1 teaches us, “God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble” (Psalm 46:1). I think we can substitute “church” for “God” in the scripture. As Christians we seek out His refuge and strength, particularly on Sunday mornings as we gather with the Body of Christ. This is a special, holy, sacred time. It should also be a safe time.

I understand that since the beginning “sin has been crouching at our doors” (Genesis 4:7). The Psalmist later wrote, “…Their evil imaginations have no limits (Psalm 73:7).

I stand on the words of Paul in Romans 12:9, and “hate what is evil and cling to what is good.” I hate church shootings (and school shootings, mass shootings, and all shootings). These attacks are pure evil and cowardly. A strong church (and strong families) are the greatest threat to the enemy and attacks on both are evidence that the both pose a serious threat to his plan.

So, “I cling to what is good.” I pray blessings for all those impacted in all shootings, including the victims, the entire congregation, family and friends of victims, and the pastor. I know that I am also called to pray for the shooter. We are taught in 1 Peter 3:9, “Do not repay evil with evil or insult with insult. On the contrary, repay evil with blessing, because to this you were called so that you may inherit a blessing.” On my own, I simply cannot pray for the shooters, but “I can do all things through Him who gives me strength” (Philippians 4:13). So, with His help, I pray for the shooters too. They have sinned, but so have I.

All sin is detestable to God. The late Rev. Billy Graham was asked if all sins are equal in God’s eyes. His response follows. “It is always difficult and dangerous to attempt to list sins according to their degree of seriousness. In one sense, all sins are equal in that they all separate us from God. The Bible’s statement, “For the wages of sin is death …” (Romans 6:23), applies to all sin, whether in thought, word, or deed.

At the same time, it seems obvious that some sins are worse than others in both motivation and effects, and should be judged accordingly. Stealing a loaf of bread is vastly different than exterminating a million people. Sins may also differ at their root.

However, remember that whether our sins are relatively small or great, they will place us in hell apart from God’s grace. The good news is that Jesus paid the penalty for our sins and the sins of the whole world at the Cross. If we will repent and turn to Jesus in faith, our sins will be forgiven, and we will receive the gift of eternal life.”

My church is now making plans for an active shooter situation. I am saddened that time and resources that could be spent on evangelism and missions are being spent on this, but I know it is necessary. Please pray for our churches. It really is important.

Prayer: Dear God, Please protect us at church and everywhere we go. Amen.

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