Men, What Do You Crave?

Like newborn babies, crave pure spiritual milk, so that by it you may grow up in your salvation(1 Peter 2:2 NIV).

We all have cravings.  A craving is a deep desire that implies something stronger than a mere want or desire.  Life is full of temptations and urgent problems which all serve as distractions from our spiritual cravings.  So, how can we be expected to sustain a spiritual appetite?  Below are five steps to consider. 

1.

Remember God loves you always

Nothing can separate us from the love of God (Romans 8:38-39).  His grace is infinitely stronger than our sin.  A life lived in Him and for Him means that “as far as the east is from the west, so far has he removed our transgressions from us” (Psalm 103:12).  Stand firm on His promises.

2.

Stop filling up on junk food

We all have free will to choose how we feed ourselves.  Some of us will try to complete themselves with work, promotions, status, salary, power, possessions, etc.  These things feed the ego “flesh” but not the soul “spirit.” If you feed the flesh, you will never be satiated.  Proverbs 15:14 teaches, The discerning heart seeks knowledge, but the mouth of a fool feeds on folly.”

3.

Put God first in all things

As Christian men we need to have a hunger for God and His word.  There is nothing no important than Him and our relationship with Him.  Everything else (family, work, house, hobbies, etc.) will all fall into place when we maintain a spiritual hunger for God.  The hunger for God must be sincere and must be a natural product of prayer and submission to the Holy Spirit.  The Apostle Paul wrote, “I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation (Philippians 4:12).  His secret was living through God and tapping into His strength.

4.

Get into God’s Word every day

The Bible is God’s word and nourishment for our souls. Eating one healthy meal a week won’t keep your body healthy.  The same is true for our spiritual health.  We need to feed on His word every day.  1 Peter 2:2 teaches us, “You must crave pure spiritual milk so that you will grow into a full experience of salvation. Cry out for this nourishment.”

5.

Appetite is influenced by association

We influence each other.  Our thoughts, opinions, accents, etc. are influenced by those close to us.   Men need a band of brothers for the battle.  We need others seeking God’s face in our foxhole.  My weekly small group of men helps me to hunger for God.  Proverbs 27:17 teaches us, As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another.”

Prayer:  Dear God:  We pray the prayer of Psalmist in Psalm 51:10.  “Create in me a clean heart, O God; and renew a right spirit within me.”

Meet the Author

Todd Shupe is a Men’s Ministry Specialist through the General Commission of United Methodist Men and is in training to be a Certified Lay Minister through the Louisiana Conference of the United Methodist Church. He currently serves as the President of the Baton Rouge District of United Methodist Men and is a Board Member for Gulf South Men and serves on the Action Team for The Kingdom Group. He is a volunteer for the Walk to Emmaus, Grace Camp, and Iron Sharpens Iron. Todd resides in Baton Rouge, Louisiana.

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