Defeating the Giants in our Lives

Defeating the Giants in our Lives

David said to the Philistine, “You come against me with sword and spear and javelin, but I come against you in the name of the Lord Almighty, the God of the armies of Israel, whom you have defied.  This day the Lord will deliver you into my hands, and I’ll strike you down and cut off your head. This very day I will give the carcasses of the Philistine army to the birds and the wild animals, and the whole world will know that there is a God in Israel”   (1 Samuel 17:45-46 NIV).

David was a young boy when he defeated the giant Goliath of the Philistine army.  This is one of the most well-known stories in the Bible.  I was intrigued with the mental pictures in my brain when I first heard this story as a young boy. 

Now, as an adult I return to this story to see what the Living Word can teach me today.  I think most men have giants that are keeping them from being the man God 

wants them to be.  If you want to reach your full spiritual potential and enjoy the fruits of a life well lived, then it is time to step out in faith to defeat the giants in your life. 

  1. Remember how God has helped you in the past
    When you remember the ways that God has helped you in the past, it gives you confidence for the future. David says in 1 Samuel 17:37, “The Lord who rescued me from the claws of the lion and the bear will rescue me from this Philistine!”

     

  2. Use the tools that God has given you
    David used the tools that God provided that utilized his strengths. “Then Saul gave David his own armor . . . ‘I can’t go in these,’ he protested to Saul. ‘I’m not used to them.’ So David took them off again. He picked up five smooth stones from a stream and put them into his shepherd’s bag”(1 Samuel 17:38-40). We tend to wait for something we don’t have such as money, education, or connections.  God has already given you the tools to face your giants with confidence.  We need to step out in confidence knowing that God if God is with us, then who can be against us? (Romans 8:31).
  1. Ignore the naysayers
    Later in life, when others were speaking against him, David had to encourage himself in the Lord: “David was seriously worried, for in their bitter grief for their children, his men began talking of killing him. But David took strength from the Lord”(1 Samuel 30:6). When you encourage yourself in the Lord, it’s not just a positive mental attitude. There is power in God’s grace, provision, and security.  David writes in Psalm 23:4, “Even though I walk through the darkest valley, I will fear no evil, for you are with me.”
  2. Expect God to help you for His glory
    David stormed the battlefield, shouting, “You come against me with sword and spear and javelin, but I come against you in the name of the Lord Almighty . . . This day the Lord will deliver you into my hands . . . and the whole world will know that there is a God in Israel”(1 Samuel 17:45-46). God will use anybody who will trust him and expect to be used by him — not because of who we are, but for His glory.

Prayer:  We come to you today with giants in our lives.  Each one is different but each one is similar in that it is keeping us from being the person that you desire us to be.  Help us dear God to step out from worry and step into faith.  Grant us the confidence that you are with us.  Amen.

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Todd Shupe is a Men’s Ministry Specialist through the General Commission of United Methodist Men and is in training to be a Certified Lay Minister through the Louisiana Conference of the United Methodist Church. He currently serves as the President of the Baton Rouge District of United Methodist Men and is a Board Member for Gulf South Men and serves on the Action Team for The Kingdom Group. He is a volunteer for the Walk to Emmaus, Grace Camp, and Iron Sharpens Iron. Todd resides in Baton Rouge, Louisiana.

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It is the Lord who goes before you. He will be with you; He will not leave you or forsake you. Do not fear or be dismayed” (Deuteronomy 31:8 ESV).

God has blessed us with the Living Word known as the Holy Bible.   We can turn to the Bible for advice and instruction for our worries and problems.  Some may feel that the Bible is too old to be relevant today.  However, many, if not all, of our issues of today are essentially the same as when Jesus walked the earth.  We learn from Ecclesiastes 1:9, “What has been will be again, what has been done will be done again; there is nothing new under the sun.”

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Elijah means “The LORD is my God,” and as a prophet he adamantly shared God’s message and warnings.  The Jews were turning to false gods, and he shared his warning.  “Elijah came near to all the people, and said, “How long will you waver between the two sides? If Yahweh is God, follow him; but if Baal, then follow him” (1 Kings 18:21).

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Elijah was so frightened by Jezebel’s threat to kill him that he flees to Mt. Horeb (Sinai).  He takes rest under a broom tree and the word of the Lord came to him and asked, “What are you doing here, Elijah” (1 Kings 19:9)?  God is omniscient and clearly knew what Elijah was doing, but He was modelling for us how to help a depressed person.

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God met him where he was.  He did not wait for Elijah to come to Him.

He asked questions and listened.  The questions were crafted to lead to self-examination.  God did not offer quick answers.  God’s actions were in accordance with James 1:19.  “Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry.”

We should be mindful of people that are disappointed because if disappointment is left unresolved it will lead to discouragement which is a step away from depression.  The pharmaceutical industry has done tremendous things for people.  However, I encourage us all to be proactive and seek out our brothers and sisters that are disappointed and turn them toward the lift of Christ and away from the darkness that leads to depression.

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How Does The Request Make Me Feel?

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What Are My Reasons to Agree?

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Take the Request Captive

We can’t be all things to all people.  However, we can be all that God wants us to be and do all that He wants us to do to build His kingdom on earth.  Our actions always begin with a thought.    So, when we are asked to take on a new responsibility, take the request captive and closely examine it.    “We demolish arguments and every pretension that sets itself up against the knowledge of God, and we take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ” (2 Cor. 10:5).  I think it is appropriate to substitute “request” in place of “thought” in this scripture. 

Prayer:  Heavenly Father we come before you as busy people with so very many responsibilities.  We want to provide for our families, please our bosses and customers, and live in harmony with all.  Please help us to always put you first in all that is asked of us.  We seek your  peace that transcends all understanding and we ask for your wisdom to make decisions that bring honor and glory to you.  Amen.

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Have you noticed a breakdown in our ability as a society to engage in civil discourse?  I have.  It seems we prefer to argue with each other rather than engage in a constructive exchange of ideas.  The goal for many is to “win” the argument with a snarky comment.  This is particularly true on social media.

Jesus certainly did not agree with the views of the Pharisees, but instead of engaging in devise arguments he often told asked questions or made statements to encourage them to search their heart.  For example, in John 8 we learn that a woman had been caught in the act of 

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In Mark 3 Jesus heals on the Sabbath at the displeasure of the Pharisees because the Mosaic law prohibited work on the Sabbath.  “Another time Jesus went into the synagogue, and a man with a shriveled hand was there.  Some of them were looking for a reason to accuse Jesus, so they watched him closely to see if he would heal him on the Sabbath. Jesus said to the man with the shriveled hand, “Stand up in front of everyone.”   Then Jesus asked them, “Which is lawful on the Sabbath: to do good or to do evil, to save life or to kill?” But they remained silent.   He looked around at them in anger and, deeply distressed at their stubborn hearts, said to the man, “Stretch out your hand.” He stretched it out, and his hand was completely restored.”

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We can disagree with each other without being disagreeable.  Isn’t it better to win a friend than win an argument?

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Five Steps for Handling Frustration

Five Steps for Handling Frustration

Five Steps for Handling Frustration

“You will keep in perfect peace those whose minds are steadfast, because they trust in you” (Isaiah 26:3 NIV).

We all have experienced frustration.   Sometimes we are frustrated with ourselves and sometimes with others, including God.  Our frustrations present an opportunity to either deepen our relationships with others or divide us.  Regardless of the nature of our frustration, our response will determine if good fruit comes from the situation.

Here are five simple steps for dealing with frustrations.

Did I cause it?  The Bible says, “A man reaps what he sows” (Galatians 6:7). We are often frustrated by things in life because we bring them on ourselves.   If the “sowing” is accidental, the “reaping” may seem too harsh.  However, if we accidently strike our thumb with a hammer is the pain any different than if we did it intentionally?

What can I learn?  There is a lesson to be learned in all circumstances.  Romans 8:28 teaches, “In all things God works for the good of those who love him.”  There are far too many bad things and evil people in the world, but we can take comfort that all things work together. God can even take the negative and turn it into a positive.  The key is we need to trust Him and wait patiently for Him.

Thank God.  In 1 Thessalonians 5:18 we learn, “Give thanks in all circumstances.”  You don’t have to be thankful for a bad situation, but you can be thankful in a bad situation.  Frustration may be a blessing in disguise.  The Apostle Paul had a thorn in his flesh and pleaded three times to God to remove it.  “But He said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.”Therefore, I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me” (2 Corinthians 12:9).

Focus on the good.  Our mental health greatly influences our spiritual and physical health.  This is likely the reason that we are encouraged in Philippians 4:8 to properly focus our thoughts.  “Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.”  It is not easy to laugh in difficult times, but whenever possible we should do so because “A cheerful heart is good medicine” (Proverbs 17:22).

Ask God to bless you with His love.  One of the most common Scripture readings at a Christian marriage is 1 Corinthians 13 because it defines love.  1 Corinthians 13:5 teaches, “[Love] is not easily angered.”   Love is self-giving, not self-serving.   Love honors the other person.  We tend to get so busy with our daily lives that we neglect to nurture our existing relationships or grow new relationships.  A Christian life is one lived in relationship with God and His people.

Prayer:  Dear God help us to view others with the same love that you view us.  Amen.

Meet the Author

Todd Shupe is a Men’s Ministry Specialist through the General Commission of United Methodist Men and is in training to be a Certified Lay Minister through the Louisiana Conference of the United Methodist Church. He currently serves as the President of the Baton Rouge District of United Methodist Men and is a Board Member for Gulf South Men and serves on the Action Team for The Kingdom Group. He is a volunteer for the Walk to Emmaus, Grace Camp, and Iron Sharpens Iron. Todd resides in Baton Rouge, Louisiana.

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    The Power of Prayer
    “The priests and the Levites stood to bless the people, and God heard them, for their prayer reached heaven, His holy dwelling place.” (2 Chronicles 30:27 NIV)
    It is important to understand that the power of prayer does not come from us.  Prayer is not special words we say or the special way we say them or even how often we say them.  The length of our prayer is also not important.  Powerful prayer is not made by standing on the street corner with dirt on your face or any other means to show others your piety.  The…
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    Knowledge

    Knowledge
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    Boundaries Benefit All

    Boundaries Benefit All
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True Freedom

True Freedom

True Freedom

“There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love” (1 John 4:18 NIV). One of the greatest blessings we have as Americans is our freedom.   The first ten amendments of the Bill of Rights guarantee us certain rights that are fundamental to our freedom.  Despite all of our freedoms, many people still live in bondage and have denied themselves true freedom. Many us live in fear of something – death, debt, an abusive spouse, etc.  Some live with guilt over something from their past.  Others have self-condemnation due to an inability to impress their parents, achieve a promotion, etc.  These people are alive but spiritually dead.  Our human condition is such that sin is inevitable.  A vast majority of the New Testament was written by the Apostle Paul, and he was a Godly man that struggled with the sin in his life.  Paul knew very well of the consequences of sin.  In Romans 6:23, Paul wrote, “For the wages of sin is death; but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” As Christians we no longer have to live in bondage to our sins.  “There is therefore now no condemnation to them which are in Christ Jesus, who walk not after the flesh, but after the Spirit.   For the law of the Spirit of life in Christ Jesus hath made me free from the law of sin and death” (Romans 8:1-2).  We may still be condemned by others, but in the eyes of God we are forgiven because of the blood of Jesus. You may be thinking – yes, I understand that I can sincerely repent and receive forgiveness, but I am still struggling with fear and anxiety due to some unresolved personal issue.  First, fear and anxiety are natural.  Too much is unhealthy, and counselors have the God-given gift of helping us to learn coping skills.  Second, did you know that Jesus had anxiety?  Jesus agonized in the Garden of Gethsemane before his death.  His heart was heavy laden and He asked, “Father, if you are willing, take this cup from me; yet not my will but yours be done”  (Luke 22:42). Jesus was expressing his dread of the coming trials, but He also reaffirmed His commitment to what God wanted.   He was modelling for us the importance of, “Set your minds on things above, not on earthly things (Colossians 3:2).  Jesus knew we would have problems, but we can take comfort in Him.   John 16:33, teaches, “I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.”  Jesus offers us His peace, and His peace is “a peace that transcends all understanding” (Philippians 4:7).   That is true freedom. Prayer:  Dear God:  Thank you for the peace you offer us in Jesus.  Help us to accept His peace.  We take comfort that when we walk through the darkest valley, we will fear no evil.  We will fear no evil because we know you are with us.   Amen. Meet the Author Todd Shupe is a Men’s Ministry Specialist through the General Commission of United Methodist Men and is in training to be a Certified Lay Minister through the Louisiana Conference of the United Methodist Church. He currently serves as the President of the Baton Rouge District of United Methodist Men and is a Board Member for Gulf South Men and serves on the Action Team for The Kingdom Group. He is a volunteer for the Walk to Emmaus, Grace Camp, and Iron Sharpens Iron. Todd resides in Baton Rouge, Louisiana. We welcome your comments below. Thank you for visiting. We trust that you have enjoyed reading our articles.

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Live Life Now!

Live Life Now!

“Not that I was ever in need, for I have learned how to be content with whatever I have. I know how to live on almost nothing or with everything. I have learned the secret of living in every situation, whether it is with a full stomach or empty, with plenty or little” (Philippians 4:11-12 NLT).

I have read this Holy Scripture many times and still struggle to understand it.  I am confused how Paul can essentially have the same joy with plenty or with little.   I have traveled to several developing countries and have witnessed wide spread poverty beyond anything in the U.S.  As I reflect back on these trips and my interactions with the local people, I recall their pure joy.  I wonder if their joy is due to the absence of stress.  Most of us would be stressed out if we woke up and found ourselves in severe poverty.  However, there seems to be an inner peace that these kind souls have that is lacking in the developed nations.

I wonder if this inner peace is due to a lack of stress.  We are stressed out today because of a lack of contentment, but Paul learned how to be content with nothing except God’s grace.  We learn in 2 Cor. 12:9, “ But He said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.”  This is a high standard for us in the modern world.  We have an inherent drive for more – money, fun, power, control, etc. 

The apostle Paul shows us another way to live.  “Not that I was ever in need, for I have learned how to be content with whatever I have. I know how to live on almost nothing or with everything. I have learned the secret of living in every situation, whether it is with a full stomach or empty, with plenty or little.” 

Do not be deceived and think that Paul lacked ambition. This is the same man that took the Gospel throughout the Roman Empire and wrote many chapters of the New Testament.  God taught him contentment.  His ambition did not wane due to his contentment and neither should yours.  They are not mutually exclusive to any of us.

Contentment isn’t laziness, complacency, or apathy.  It is living life now and not waiting for something better (job promotion, new bass boat, etc.) to come along.  We all want to make professional and personal progress, and that is fine.   We should not let our yearning for something in the future preclude our ability to enjoy our blessings of today.  Contentment is the ability to find happiness in your current situation.

I think Paul was using his knowledge of contentment to advise the Thessalonians in 5:18 by writing, “give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.”  It is extremely important that he is urging us to give thanks in all circumstances and not for all circumstances.  We are not to give thanks for tragedy, but we can still be thankful in the tragedy because His grace is sufficient for us.

Prayer:  Dear God, We give you thanks and praise in all circumstances because we know that you will bring about good from the bad.  Help us dear Lord to be live life today because tomorrow is not promised.  Each day is a blessing from you and we will surely rejoice and be glad in it because we know that you walk with us in good times and bad.  We love you, need you, and praise you.  Amen.

Meet the Author

Todd Shupe is a Men’s Ministry Specialist through the General Commission of United Methodist Men and is in training to be a Certified Lay Minister through the Louisiana Conference of the United Methodist Church. He currently serves as the President of the Baton Rouge District of United Methodist Men and is a Board Member for Gulf South Men and serves on the Action Team for The Kingdom Group. He is a volunteer for the Walk to Emmaus, Grace Camp, and Iron Sharpens Iron. Todd resides in Baton Rouge, Louisiana.

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The Unforgivable Sin?

The Unforgivable Sin?

The Unforgivable Sin?

“But the father said to his servants, ‘Quick! Bring the best robe and put it on him. Put a ring on his finger and sandals on his feet.  Bring the fattened calf and kill it. Let’s have a feast and celebrate.   For this son of mine was dead and is alive again; he was lost and is found.’ So they began to celebrate” (Luke 15:22-24 NIV).

Years ago a dear friend, let’s call him John, confided in me that he had made the “unforgivable sin.”  I was expecting him to tell me about how he had committed blasphemy against the Holy Spirit.   In Mark 3:20-34, Jesus is accused by his parents of being “out of His mind” and the Pharisees said, “He is possessed by Beelzebul!”  Jesus called them to Him and began to speak in parables beginning with “How can satan drive out satan?”  He concluded by stating, “Truly I tell you, people can be forgiven all their sins and every slander they utter, but whoever blasphemes against the Holy Spirit will never be forgiven; they are guilty of an eternal sin” (Mark 3:28-29).  Context is always important in understanding Scripture and the next verse helps in this regard.  “He said this because they were saying, “He has an impure spirit” (Mark 3:30).   Jesus was clearly not an impure spirit, but rather the impurity was in the heart of the Pharisees.

John went on to tell me that his sin was that had lust in his heart for another woman that was not his wife.  His sin was based on Matthew 5:27.  “You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery.’  But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart.”  John had indeed sinned, but he had earnestly turned from his sin, repented, and asked for God’s forgiveness.  I assured him that based on what he told me, his sin was surely forgiven.

John’s fears were unfounded. While there is an unforgivable sin, it is not one that a true believer in Jesus Christ can commit.  The sin of the religious leaders, blasphemy against the Holy Spirit, was a refusal to accept the divinity of Jesus and submit their lives to Him.  Jesus addressed the coming of the Holy Spirit in John 16:8, “When He comes, He will prove the world to be in the wrong about sin and righteousness and judgment:  about sin, because people do not believe in me.”

The unpardonable sin is not some particularly grievous sin committed by a Christian before or after accepting Christ, nor is it thinking or saying something terrible about the Holy Spirit. Rather, it is deliberately resisting the Holy Spirit’s witness and invitation to turn to Him until death ends all opportunity.  I believe that if you reject Jesus until your last day but on that last day “you declare with your mouth, “Jesus is Lord,” and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved.” (Romans 10:9).  Your declaration must be sincere, and God knows what is in our hearts.

Prayer:  Dear God:  Thank you for the blessing of forgiveness of sins.  We know that nothing we do can separate us from your love.  Please continue to draw us closer to you so we will love what is pure and hate what is evil.  Amen.

Meet the Author

Todd Shupe is a Men’s Ministry Specialist through the General Commission of United Methodist Men and is in training to be a Certified Lay Minister through the Louisiana Conference of the United Methodist Church. He currently serves as the President of the Baton Rouge District of United Methodist Men and is a Board Member for Gulf South Men and serves on the Action Team for The Kingdom Group. He is a volunteer for the Walk to Emmaus, Grace Camp, and Iron Sharpens Iron. Todd resides in Baton Rouge, Louisiana.

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    Seek Unity Not Uniformity

    Seek Unity Not Uniformity
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    The Biblical Roots Of Trust
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    The actual phrase “Jesus loves me,” cannot be found in the Bible but there are examples that support this fact. In John 13:34 Jesus said, “As I have loved you, you must love one another” and in John 15:9 He said, “As the Father has…
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  • Seeing Without Sight



    Seeing Without Sight
    “Jesus stopped and said, “Call him.”  So, they called to the blind man, “Cheer up! On your feet! He’s calling you.” Throwing his cloak aside, he jumped to his feet and came to Jesus” (Mark 10: 49-50 NIV).
    I am grateful to have good vision, but yet I wonder how much I don’t see.  I am often reminded of the story of the blind beggar Bartimaeus (Mark 10:46-52) who sits by the roadside hopefully calling out to Jesus to pay attention to him and heal him. Some of the people in the crowd tried to hush him up. (Probably they felt,…
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