Meal Time is Ministry Time

Meal Time is Ministry Time

When He was at the table with them, He took bread, gave thanks, broke it and began to give it to them” (Luke 24:30 NIV).

Many people have the false notion that ministry only occurs inside the walls of the local church.  The truth is we go to worship on Sunday to be fed the Word so that we can be the hands and feet of Christ – to feed others.  However, it should be noted that we need to feed ourselves throughout the week by reading Scripture, prayer and meditation, and small groups.

We are all ministers.  We are all called into ministry through our baptism and profession of faith in Jesus Christ as our Savior and Lord.  We all have a ministry that 

we have been gifted with through the gifts and graces of the Spirit.  The big question is how and where should we do our ministry?  The Spirit will guide you in this and close, Christian friends will affirm you as appropriate.

Jesus is the perfect role model for ministry.  Yes, he did ministry in the temple by teaching to His fellow Jews.  However, the vast majority of His ministry was done outside of the temple.  It is interesting to me how many times in Luke’s Gospel Jesus sits around a table for a meal.  He regularly shared meals with others, whether they were Pharisees, sinners and tax collectors, or His disciples.  Scripture provides us the ability to learn more of what He teaches about His heavenly Father on these occasions than from what He says in the synagogue.

Meal time is an ideal time not only for fellowship but also to drill down deeper to offer a word of hope, grace, peace, and love.  Meals at the table are some of Jesus’ favorite settings for Him to make visible to others the good news of God’s mercy and acceptance of all people.

One of the primary roles of a husband as stated in the Bible is to lead his family to Christ.  Meal time is a perfect opportunity for the husband to lead by giving thanks to God for the food and all the blessings that He has provided.  Leadership simply means influence. Therefore, a biblically-based husband should influence his family. Husbands are not dictators, they should not demand, they should not rule over their wives. Instead, husbands should influence their wives and families in accordance with biblical teaching. They should exemplify, with their voice and their actions, attributes that bring glory to God and value and honor to their spouse and family.

Meal time is ministry time.  Men, I encourage you to serve your family by leading them in prayer at this time.  The fruit of a good biblically-based husband is a strong, confident, spiritually mature wife and family. 

Prayer:  Dear God:  We are blessed to have an abundance of food.  May we always be grateful that you are the provider of this and all of our blessings including our families.  Please help us to lead our families in such a way that brings honor and glory to you.

Meet the Author

Todd Shupe is a Men’s Ministry Specialist through the General Commission of United Methodist Men and is in training to be a Certified Lay Minister through the Louisiana Conference of the United Methodist Church. He currently serves as the President of the Baton Rouge District of United Methodist Men and is a Board Member for Gulf South Men and serves on the Action Team for The Kingdom Group. He is a volunteer for the Walk to Emmaus, Grace Camp, and Iron Sharpens Iron. Todd resides in Baton Rouge, Louisiana.

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The Stranger

“Do not forget to show hospitality to strangers, for by so doing some people have shown hospitality to angels without knowing it”  (Hebrews 13:2 NIV).

A friend recently told me an amazing story of kindness that begin with the simple words “excuse me.”  She was walking to her car in a parking lot when a voice from behind called out to her, “excuse me.”  She froze for a second and did not immediately respond.  She thought that this is likely a con man or a beggar wanting a hand out.  Questions raced through her mind.  Why doesn’t he get a job?  If I give him money, is he going to use it to buy drugs?  Doesn’t he realize that I have stuff to do? 

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She told me that she knew that this man was authentic because he was not asking for money.  He was kind and polite and it seemed sincere as if it was natural part of his inner being.  She responded, “yes let’s go to the Wendy’s next door and I will eat with you.”

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Now as I reflect back on the story, I see the hand of God.  First, the man approached my friend and waited for her response.   Doesn’t that sound like the invitation “Come to me” (Matthew 11:28) that God extends to us and waits for our response “Come to me” (Matthew 11:28).

Then, I noticed that my friend agreed to provide food for the stranger.  Doesn’t that sound like the command “Feed my sheep” that Jesus gave Peter in John 21:17.

Finally, as he left, I note that my friend felt a gentle and humble presence.  Doesn’t that sound like how Jesus described himself in Matthew 11:29 – “I am gentle and humble in heart.”

We are all children of God. I have no doubt that my friend met Jesus that day. The Holy Spirit is in each of us so we met Jesus each day when we meet each other. Imagine if we treat each stranger we meet as the child of God.  Imagine.

Prayer:  Dear God:  You are truly gentle and humble in heart.  Create in us a new heart that is also gentle, humble, and seeks only to please you.  Help us to see You in everyone that we meet.  We love you.  Amen.

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Authenticity is rare today.  It only happens when people get honest about who they are and what is happening in their lives.  It happens when people share their hurts, reveal their true feelings, confess their failures, disclose their doubts, and ask for help and prayer.

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Service is Ministry

We live in a self-serving secular world in which people act to serve their own self interests.  I had a dear friend that has gone on to Glory but on earth he worked as an economist.  He claimed that the entire system of economic theory is so purely deductive that everything in it can be deduced from one essential axiom.   The rationality axiom states that “a rational person maximizes his/her utility.” Some economists will substitute “utility” with “self-interest,” or “well-being.”  This statement has often been interpreted to mean that the pursuit of self-interest is the only thing that is done by rational economic people and that anything else is irrational. This theory has been criticized by some economists, but it still raises an interesting point.  If we serve others are we acting in an irrational manner or are we displaying true leadership, as modeled by Jesus, by being a servant leader?

In my opinion, service to others is the heart of Christianity and the visible sign of a disciple.  We can give our service to God and the Bible refers to this as “storing up treasure in Heaven.”   When we give our talents and resources to others are we not engaging in Christian ministry?  Each of us was made for ministry.  Each of us has been given unique talents to build up the Body of Christ.  “We have different gifts, according to the grace given to each of us…” (Romans 12:6).  Not all of us are called to ministry or capable of physical labor.  However, these are just a few of the numerous possible ministries.  I once heard of a woman that had a unique ministry of prayer.  Each day she opened up her local newspaper and prayed for the newborn babies and for the newly married couples.  When asked why she did not pray for those listed in the obituaries she responded.  I rejoice for them for they have entered into eternal glory for our loving God.  Ministry can also be listening to others that are having a tough day, making it known that your house is always open to talk with those hurting.  God has gifted us all with the ability to smile.  A ministry of smiling can have a tremendous positive impact on others.

Let’s return back to the economic discussion.  We all know the basic economic principle of supply and demand.  For most goods or services, there is a finite supply.  However, it is important to realize that our “demands” (e.g., prayers and petitions) on God can never exceed His infinite supply of grace.  In short, nothing can separate us from the love of God (Romans 8:35-39).  So we are justified in Christ Jesus and have the confidence that He goes with us as we go to do ministry that he has prepared for us.  “For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand, that we should walk in them” (Ephesians 2:10). 

So, why should we do ministry?  The Bible says, “This service you do not only helps the needs of God’s people, it also brings many more thanks to God. It is a proof of your faith. Many people will praise God because you obey the Good News of Christ—the gospel you say you believe—and because you freely share with them and with all others” (2 Corinthians 9:12-13).  Ministry is fulfilling The Great Commission.  How you engage in ministry is a process of constant discernment.

Prayer:  Dear God, We seek to share your love with others.  We desire to have a meaningful ministry that will glorify your name.  We need your help each day to identify opportunities for ministry.  Equip us with Your love and wisdom and we walk with the peace that surely you will be with us until the end of the age.

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“Start children off on the way they should go, and even when they are old they will not turn from it” (Proverbs 22:6 NIV).

My second child, Kyle, was born May 24, 2002. He was a big, healthy baby and was, and will always be, a tremendous blessing to me. We noticed at an early age that he was not reaching the typical milestones for babies and toddlers in terms of walking, talking, etc. We had him tested for hearing loss, brain function, blood tests and more. All of the tests came back normal, but his development was not normal. In particular, he showed little interest in talking and had a very limited vocabulary.

Eventually, we received a diagnosis of PDD-NOS (pervasive development disorder – not otherwise specified). I remember looking at that and thinking, “Okay, now we know what we have, so let’s make a plan to fix it.” However, I later realized that his autism is a spectrum disorder with no known cure, and the spectrum covers patients identified as high functioning to severe. To me, the diagnosis sounded more like — We don’t really know what your child has so we created a category and called it PDD-NOS instead of WDK (we don’t know).

Families with a special needs child have special needs of their own — schools, churches, restaurants, dentists, etc. that are accommodating to special needs children. We were blessed to find an excellent Pre-K program at Southdowns Elementary in Baton Rouge. However, Kyle aged out of the program and we were left looking at options that ranged from lousy to expensive. We declined lousy and hired a private teacher to work with our son. Also, our church was accommodating and invited us to attend several meetings to discuss setting up a special needs Sunday School room.

I have heard some parents say that when they received the diagnosis of autism, they felt as if part of their child had died, that their dreams and hopes for their child had been shattered and that their child would not live a “typical” life. I never felt that way. I believe in continuous improvement. So Kyle goes to school all year long. This is expensive, but it is best for his development.

I realize that there are many things he will never do, such as get married, drive a car, or play high school sports — and that is fine with me. I focus on the things that he can do. He can go for walks with me and hold my hand. He can go to the movies with me and share a tub of popcorn and a soda while we enjoy an animated movie. He enjoys playing fetch with our dog. And he can give the best hugs that will cure a headache much better than any aspirin.

A child with special needs certainly puts a strain on any marriage. A 2010 study conducted by the University of Wisconsin at Madison found that parents with ASD children were nearly twice as likely to get divorced than couples without disabled children. The study revealed something else interesting: the divorce rates in parents with disabled children did not increase until the children became teens or adults. My own marriage ended after 20 years when Kyle was 12 years old.

Kyle has a bright future, and I want him to become as independent as possible. Like other children, he yearns for his father’s approval and I try to always acknowledge every good thing that he does. So there is no need to change or “cure” Kyle. He is perfect just as he is. He is a child of God and a tremendous blessing to me. I want him to live a happy life.

We hold hands and pray before each meal. I offer the blessing and then gently squeeze his hand at the end and he clearly and proudly says, “Amen!” Kyle is a blessing to me and has taught me so much about what is really important in life.

Prayer:  Dear God, Thank you for the blessing of children.  Be with us as we raise them to reach their full potential as Your children.  Amen.

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Todd Shupe is a Men’s Ministry Specialist through the General Commission of United Methodist Men and is in training to be a Certified Lay Minister through the Louisiana Conference of the United Methodist Church. He currently serves as the President of the Baton Rouge District of United Methodist Men and is a Board Member for Gulf South Men and serves on the Action Team for The Kingdom Group. He is a volunteer for the Walk to Emmaus, Grace Camp, and Iron Sharpens Iron. Todd resides in Baton Rouge, Louisiana.

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The Importance of Christian Study

The Importance of Christian Study

The Importance of Christian Study

“All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness” (2 Timothy 3:16 NIV).

For many of us the thought of studying brings back memories of cramming for exams in high school or college.  Many men would rather engage in Christian action rather than Christian study.  Through action we can see the fruits of our labor and be the Body of Christ in our neighborhood and beyond.

Our goal as Christians should be to develop an intimate relationship with God.  There are many paths in which God can reveal Himself to us:  prayer, worship, sacred moments, and fellowship with fellow Christians.   For us to have a relationship with God, we must actively seek him.  “You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart” Jer. 29:13.  The Bible is perhaps God’s most direct means of revealing Himself to us.

Have you ever heard the expression “Stay in the Word?”  I always thought that this was encouragement to read the Bible.  However, after reading the Bible we begin to learn that the Word is more than just a book.  The Word is God himself!  “In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God” (John 1:1).  The Word can also refer to Jesus.  “The Word became flesh and made his dwelling among us.  We have seen his glory, the glory of the one and only Son, who came from the Father, full of grace and truth”.  (John 1:14).  As we read scripture the Holy Spirit will help us to understand the message that God has for us.  Therefore, we should not be surprised when different people read the same scripture and come away with different interpretations.  They all have the right interpretation – for them.  The Word is also alive.  So, you can read the same scripture for years and then one day something clicks and you have an epiphany and now you see a different meaning, application, or interpretation of the same scripture.  This is truly the work of the Spirit delivering the right message to you at the right time.

Knowledge and application of scripture opens your heart to Christ.  As we mature as Christians we try to grow closer to Christ.  We want to seek His face and become more Christ-like in our thoughts, words, and actions.  Paul addresses this notion in 2 Cor 5:17  Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come:  The old has gone, the new is here!”  Some may debate is the Bible the word of God or is it a book about God that was written by men?  For me, the answer to this question can be found in 2 Tim. 3:16 “All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness.” 

Looking at the Greek word for “God breathed” or as some translations say, “breathed out” is “theopneustos” and means “inspired by God” or literally the very “breath of God.”  I believe that the Word of God is God’s breathing out His literal Word.  The breath of God is all powerful and can even raise dry bones to life.  “Then he said to me, “Prophesy to the breath; prophesy, son of man, and say to it, ‘This is what the Sovereign Lord says:  Come, breath, from the four winds and breathe into these slain, that they may live.’”  So I prophesied as he commanded me, and breath entered them; they came to life and stood up on their feet—a vast army” (Ezekiel 37:9-10).

Scripture is inspired by God.  We know that “prophecy was never produced by the will of man, but men spoke from God as they were carried along by the Holy Spirit” (2 Peter 1:21).  It’s important to note that the word “prophecy” does not mean, in this context, predicting the future.  The Greek word “prophēteia” means “a discourse emanating from divine inspiration.”  Therefore, we can say that all Scripture is God’s breathed words and emanates from a divine (God’s) inspiration.  In other words, the Word of God is not of human origin but originates from God Himself and to study scripture is to study God himself.

We should study scripture because it is totally reliable and without error.  We should read and study the Bible because God does not change; it is as relevant for us as it was when it was written.  “The grass withers and the flowers fade, but the word of our God stands forever”  (Isaiah 40:8).

While technology and culture changes, mankind’s nature and sinful desires do not change.  We find, as we read scripture, “there is nothing new under the sun”  (Ecclesiastes 1:9).  Mankind as a whole continues to seek answers and comfort in the wrong places.  The Bible, is so important that Jesus said of it, “Man does not live on bread alone, but by every word that comes from the mouth of God” (Matthew 4:4).  In other words, if we want to live life to the fullest, as God intended, we must listen to and heed God’s written Word.  The Word is the only offensive weapon in the armor of God (Ephesians 6:17).

The Bible gives us a pathway to salvation and how one truly gets to heaven.  God’s Word shows us just how much God loves us (Romans 5:6-8John 3:16).  We are drawn to love Him in return (1 John 4:19).  God extends grace upon grace to us.

You cannot lead if you are not equipped.  The Bible equips us to serve God (2 Timothy 3:17Ephesians 6:17Hebrews 4:12). Scripture helps us understand how to be saved from our sin and its road to death (2 Timothy 3:15). Meditating on God’s Word and obedience will bring success in life (Joshua 1:8James 1:25).  God’s Word helps us to identify sin in our lives and remove it (Psalm 119:911).  It gives us guidance in life and makes our paths straight (Psalm 32:8119:99Proverbs 3:5-6).  Life is full of dangerous snares but the Word will show you the way.  “Thy word is a lamp unto my feet, and a light unto my path” (Psalm 119:105).

It cannot be emphasized strongly enough just how important the Bible is to our lives.  Studying the Bible can be compared to most anything else in life.  The more you put into it, the more you will get out of it.  I have heard it said before that it is important to know the Bible because you may be the only Bible that somebody else may ever see.

Prayer:  Dear God, Send Your Holy Spirit to teach us as we read Scripture so that we are reading Words of Life. Amen.

Meet the Author

Todd Shupe is a Men’s Ministry Specialist through the General Commission of United Methodist Men and is in training to be a Certified Lay Minister through the Louisiana Conference of the United Methodist Church. He currently serves as the President of the Baton Rouge District of United Methodist Men and is a Board Member for Gulf South Men and serves on the Action Team for The Kingdom Group. He is a volunteer for the Walk to Emmaus, Grace Camp, and Iron Sharpens Iron. Todd resides in Baton Rouge, Louisiana.

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The Power of Prayer

The priests and the Levites stood to bless the people, and God heard them, for their prayer reached heaven, His holy dwelling place.” (2 Chronicles 30:27 NIV)

It is important to understand that the power of prayer does not come from us.  Prayer is not special words we say or the special way we say them or even how often we say them.  The length of our prayer is also not important.  Powerful prayer is not made by standing on the street corner with dirt on your face or any other means to show others your piety.  The power of prayer is not based on a certain direction we face or clothes.  Moreover, a powerful prayer does not require candles or beads.

The power of prayer comes from God alone who hears our prayers and answers them. Prayer is a “hotline” that places us in contact with Almighty God, and we should expect almighty results,

whether or not He chooses to grant our petitions or deny our requests.  Our prayers never receive a “busy signal.”  Whatever the answer to our prayers, the God to whom we pray is the source of the power of prayer, and He can and will answer us, according to His perfect will and timing.  We pray with joy, thanksgiving, and anticipation because we know that our loving Father hears us and wants good for us.  We wait with child-like wonder to see how and when God is going to move.

Prayer is the first step of the Christian in any situation.  God wants His people to pray to Him for petitions and thanksgiving. Prayer to God should be made persistently (Luke 18:1), with joy (Philippians 4:6), in faith (James 1:5), within the will of God (Matthew 6:10), for the glory of God (John 14:13-14), and from a heart right with God (James 5:16).   “The effectual fervent prayer of a righteous man availeth much” (James 5:16).  There is absolutely nothing that cannot be accomplished through prayer if it is consistent with His will.  And prayer is never futile. True prayer is always true power. You may not always get what you ask, but you shall always have your real needs supplied.

I think the ultimate power of prayer comes when we pray for those that have hurt us the most.  Matthew 5:44 teaches us, “But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you.”  Once we truly understand this and do it with sincerity, a supernatural peace will come upon us and the hurt will be a distant memory compared to the ever-present love of God.

Prayer:  Thank you for the power of prayer and the peace that comes from knowing you hear all of our prayers.  Help up to pray with joy and confidence and then wait patiently for your mighty hand.  Dear God, please help us to sincerely pray blessings for those who persecute us, and as we do so with the knowledge that you will be glorified.

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Todd Shupe is a Men’s Ministry Specialist through the General Commission of United Methodist Men and is in training to be a Certified Lay Minister through the Louisiana Conference of the United Methodist Church. He currently serves as the President of the Baton Rouge District of United Methodist Men and is a Board Member for Gulf South Men and serves on the Action Team for The Kingdom Group. He is a volunteer for the Walk to Emmaus, Grace Camp, and Iron Sharpens Iron. Todd resides in Baton Rouge, Louisiana.

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Childlike Heart: Key to Heaven

Jesus embracing children, highlighting the importance of a childlike heart: the key to heaven.

Childlike Heart: Key to Heaven

“And they were bringing children to him that he might touch them, and the disciples rebuked them. But when Jesus saw it, he was indignant and said to them, “Let the children come to me; do not hinder them, for to such belongs the kingdom of God. Truly, I say to you, whoever does not receive the kingdom of God like a child shall not enter it.” And he took them in his arms and blessed them, laying his hands on them” (Mark 10:13-16 ESV).

There is no greater gift from God than the blessing of a child. A child’s heart represents purity, innocence, and a sense of wonder—all qualities that Jesus cherishes and deems essential for entering His kingdom. A childlike heart truly is the key to heaven. As we explore the profound significance of this truth, we’ll see why Jesus calls us to embrace a childlike heart in our faith journey.

The Gift of Children: A Blessing from Above

Children are among the most perfect and precious gifts we receive from God, as underscored in James 1:17, which reminds us that “every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows.” The Bible further celebrates children as a reward from God: “Behold, children are a heritage from the Lord, the fruit of the womb a reward. Like arrows in the hand of a warrior are the children of one’s youth. Blessed is the man who fills his quiver with them! He shall not be put to shame when he speaks with his enemies in the gate” (Psalm 127:3-5).

Jesus’ Love for Children: Embracing a Childlike Heart

Jesus demonstrated a special affinity for children, as highlighted in the Gospels. He invited them to come to Him, rebuked those who tried to prevent them, and emphasized the importance of receiving the kingdom of God like a child. In Matthew 19:14, He said, “Let the little children come to me and do not hinder them, for to such belongs the kingdom of heaven.” This statement shows Jesus’ deep love for children and underscores the essential quality of a childlike heart as the key to heaven.

Childlike Faith and Humility: A Pathway to God’s Kingdom

Jesus’ teachings extend beyond welcoming children; they call all believers to adopt the qualities of children. He declared, “Truly, I say to you, unless you turn and become like children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven” (Matthew 18:3). This powerful statement emphasizes that greatness in God’s eyes is found in childlike faith and humility. To enter God’s kingdom, we must come with absolute dependency, openness, and humility—traits that define a childlike heart.

Living with a Childlike Heart: Daily Renewal

Embracing a childlike heart means setting aside the pursuit of authority, recognizing that we are all equal before God, and living free from malice and prejudice. Young children do not see differences in race or social status; they are teachable, trusting, and wholly dependent on their parents. In the same way, we are called to depend on our Heavenly Father and be renewed daily in the spirit of our minds, adopting simplicity, humility, and a willingness to be the least of all.

Becoming Like Children: The Ultimate Call to Faith

Jesus likens the journey to spiritual greatness to becoming like children, lovingly referring to His disciples and followers as “my children” (John 13:33). This childlike heart is the key to heaven, urging us to abandon our adult complexities and embrace a pure, trusting, and humble approach to our relationship with God. In Luke 18:17, Jesus reminds us once again: “Truly, I say to you, whoever does not receive the kingdom of God like a child shall not enter it.”

In our walk of faith, let us strive to maintain a childlike heart—free from the burdens of pride, open to learning, and wholly dependent on our loving Father. By doing so, we embrace the true key to heaven and align ourselves with the kingdom of God.

Prayer:  Dear God:  Thank you for being our Good Father.  May we always approach you with the curiosity of children that seek to be clay in your hands.  Amen.

Meet the Author

Todd Shupe is a Men’s Ministry Specialist through the General Commission of United Methodist Men and is in training to be a Certified Lay Minister through the Louisiana Conference of the United Methodist Church. He currently serves as the President of the Baton Rouge District of United Methodist Men and is a Board Member for Gulf South Men and serves on the Action Team for The Kingdom Group. He is a volunteer for the Walk to Emmaus, Grace Camp, and Iron Sharpens Iron. Todd resides in Baton Rouge, Louisiana.

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“Fight the good fight of the faith. Take hold of the eternal life to which you were called when you made your good confession in the presence of many witnesses” (1 Timothy 6:12 NIV). The Bible is filled with examples of individuals answering God’s holy calling. From Adam and Eve in Genesis 3 to Samuel in 1 Samuel 3 and Elijah in 1 Kings 19, these stories illustrate how God reaches out to His people, often amid fear or uncertainty. When Jesus walked the earth, He continued this pattern, calling people to follow Him. Even today, God is still calling us, patiently waiting for us to respond.

Understanding Your Divine Purpose

Often, it is easier to recognize that we are being called than to understand what we are called to do. As we consider our own journeys, it’s essential to grasp that God’s calling is not merely about saving us from something; rather, it is about saving us for something. 2 Timothy 1:9 says: “He has saved us and called us to a holy calling.” This calling is unique to each individual, set apart by God, and thus pure and holy. It urges us to abandon reliance on our own deeds and instead turn to Christ for salvation.

Living in unrepentant sin creates a separation from God, leaving a void that nothing earthly can fill. When we live according to the Spirit, however, we acknowledge that while sin is a part of our human condition, our heavenly calling compels us to strive against it. St. Paul expresses this struggle in Romans 7:20: “Now if I do what I do not want to do, it is no longer I who do it, but it is sin living in me that does it.”

Pressing Toward Your Holy Calling

Is this the longing of your heart? Does your life reflect a pursuit of God and His divine will? In Philippians 3:13-14, we learn the importance of letting go of the past and focusing on our holy calling from God: “Brothers and sisters, I do not consider myself yet to have taken hold of it. But one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead, I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus.”

Living Out Your Holy Calling

Answering God’s holy calling means allowing it to shape and refine your heart, directing your desires toward heavenly treasures. This calling elevates your hopes, tastes, and aspirations, shifting your focus from selfish earthly pursuits to a deep desire to know God, become more like Him, and lead others to Him. It is a journey that prunes the old and purifies the new, making room for a life that mirrors the love and holiness of Christ. So, are you ready to embrace your holy calling and walk boldly in the purpose that God has set before you?

Prayer: Dear God please help us to find time to be alone with you to hear and understanding your calling.  Please give us the courage to take up our cross and to bring others to know you as we do.  We want to grow closer to you and ask that you help us leave behind all desires that lead to death and give us a heart that longs to see your face.  In Jesus name we pray.  Amen.

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Todd Shupe is a Men’s Ministry Specialist through the General Commission of United Methodist Men and is in training to be a Certified Lay Minister through the Louisiana Conference of the United Methodist Church. He currently serves as the President of the Baton Rouge District of United Methodist Men and is a Board Member for Gulf South Men and serves on the Action Team for The Kingdom Group. He is a volunteer for the Walk to Emmaus, Grace Camp, and Iron Sharpens Iron. Todd resides in Baton Rouge, Louisiana.

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